It is said that when a relationship ends with everything left up in the air, its because there is the thought of leaving an opening or a reason to go back. By leaving everything “unsaid” there is no real goodbye and all is left on pause so that one day it can be picked up easily where everything left off. Maybe we just dont like to admit that its really over and prefer to leave things unsaid because we are afraid to become vulnerable, say what we really feel inside and then get deepy hurt. Is it best to pour our hearts out and be hurt or just leave things unsaid? Any thoughts?

Not that you’re the one
Not to say I’m right
Not to say today
And not to say a thing tonight

But suffice it to say
We’re leaving things unsaid
We sing ourselves to sleep
Watching the day lie down instead

And we are leaving some things unsaid
And we are breathing deeper instead

We’re both pretty sure
Neither one can tell
We seem difficult
What we got is hard as hell

A hundred thousand words could not quite explain
So I walk you to your car And we can talk it out in the rain

And we are leaving some things unsaid
And we are breathing deeper instead
And we are leaving some things unsaid

I can sing myself to sleep
No more

Not that you’re the one
Not to say I’m right
Not to say today
And not to say a thing tonight

Lyrics by The Fray